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A CHILD’S RECESS

Posted by: a-greentree | October 1, 2008 |

The greyish green double doors opened, spewing a sea of screaming first and second graders ready for the sun and the grassy field.  In the midst of them, a little girl passed me by, her focus was toward the swings, slides and monkey bars.  But beneath such focus, something tugged me.  Rimming the little girl’s eyes were suppressed tears and as she shuffled in the direction of the bark laden playgound,  a soft moan came out of her.

“Is everything okay?” I asked.

The girl halted her pace, tilting her head up to look at me.  “Huh?” she asked back, sadness in her eyes.

“What’s the matter sweetie?  Are you alright?”

“No,” she answered in her sweet, soft, tiny voice, and began to tell me what was bothering her.  She pointed at her thigh.  In her lisped speech, she told me that she has a sore or a boil on her leg.  “And it hurts (pronouncing her R’s with W’s) really, really bad,” she added. 

The girl wanted to show me the sore, pulling the hem of her jean pant up, but the wound was too high up to be seen.  I stopped her,  telling her that it’s okay, and that I don’t need to see it. 

“Have you told your Mom or Dad about it,” concerned that this girl should bear such pain.

“Yes,” she replied.  “I already told my mom.  But she said that we don’t have the money to take me to the doctor.”

Why would an innocent child be made to sacrifice her well-being and health? 

It angers me when I see a child in pain, his or her parent scraping by to make ends meet and I hear multi-billion banks being bailed out.   All these occuring because of greed and their stupid mistakes.  It angers me when I learn that the new CEO of WAMU, who only was in office for three weeks gets 11.7 million for running the company and hundreds of thousands of dollars in severance pay.  Yet, an eight year old child is made to sit in a corner wondering if she can go to a doctor to get her leg sore checked. 

It breaks my heart to look into this child’s blue eyes and feel helpless about it.  That moment, I wanted to take her to the doctor myself and hope that our insurance would cover the expenses.  But we all know that that’s highly unlikely.   The only option I had was to send the girl to the nurse’s office so that her sore could be checked.   (Maybe the nurse could take notes and what not…I don’t know).

When the girl left, deep inside, I knew nothing will be done to it (the sore) because schools are not allowed to treat or dispense anything unless given the authorization by a doctor to do so.

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there is nothing more painful in life than seeing a child suffer.why good things happen to bad people and bad things happens to good ones is sometimes beyond anyone’s comprehension.i sat here and couldn’t help but feel the pain and frustration you must have felt at that moment. wanting to do something yet powerless to do so.good intentions is the beginning of good deeds.lets start planting the seed of good intentions and when the time comes, when we have the resources and power to do so,let’s watch good deeds grow in its full heights!!

i totally agree with you, wen. there’s so much unfairness in this crazy world of ours. the filthy rich get bailed out of situations which they got into due to their wrong practices, while on the other side of the spectrum, an innocent little child gets nothing .. seems to be nothing .. gets no help at all for a medical condition that is hurting her, affecting her. and i thought they said children are the future? sadly, it seems this country is spinning out of control … losing sight of what its priorities should be. in my opinion, children should be on the top of the list. the pain and discomfort of a child should be given more importance than the economic woes of oil barons or stuffy wall street types who have so much money, yet also so much greed. bless your heart for at least trying to reach out to this dear child. let’s pray her parents find some funds (or maybe take her to a free clinic?) so her sore/boil can be treated. thank you for sharing this touching piece with us. it has touched me deeply and has made me realize that there is still hope in this world. as long as there are writers like you who have a soft heart for children .. who see and feel their pain before they even utter a word .. and who try to come up with a solution when even their parents are left clueless, then there is still hope in this world. there is still hope for us all …

I felt cold inside thinking what this poor little girl is going through. What made the situation tougher for us is our willingness to help, but there are circumstances that prevents us from doing so. It’s different here in the US, there are liabilities with our actions. Several times we wanted to do something for others, but just the thought of being blamed or sued in return makes you think twice if it is worth it. We can only pray and hope that her parents find resources to take this girl to the doctor - I know we have free clinics.

you’re correct, Wen. I feel your pain watching the poor little girl suffer. in those moments, where you want to help but is helpless also about it, the best we can do is pray for the well being of the child. there are so many helpless kids in our world, though we may be little and could not help them all, but helping and reaching out to even just one kid would surely help overcome the imbalance we have.

thank you beth, elizabethj, mj and eng for all your comments. you’ve touched me with your concern.

Wen, yeah, it would seem that the world is unfair. I am not an economist and I don’t really understand what’s going on apart from the fact that I know that somehow each of us has probably contributed to what happened. And yes, I totally agree that it would seem unfair that these rich people get richer and now they get a billion dollar bail-out when a lot of people and chidlren continue to suffer…but then if they don’t get the bail-out, are we all not also going to suffer the consequences? You know what, Wen, I know the rich get richer but then again, aren’t we all not dependent on the rich? We are employed by the rich, we shop in shops owned by the rich, we get food manufactured by the rich. We are a what Wayne Dyer calls, ‘a one song’, all of us connected to each other. When the rich falls, we all fall. But yes, I do agree, it seems unfair. I does look like it.

i have just come across this post, and i feel terribly sad for the little girl. oh, it is painful to tthink of what she goes through everyday!

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